Today I saw a sign being shared that was originally from an Episcopal church. People commented on it about how great it was, how it was all about love, and how this is what Jesus meant.
I call bullshit.
A massive, steaming pile of fresh, fly-attracting bullshit.
A field full of massive, steaming piles of fresh, fly-attracting bullshit.
I don’t love you.
I don’t have to love you.
Love is like respect.
You try to love and respect people when you meet them.
You try to assume the best in them.
You try to believe that the love and respect will be reciprocated, that there is a level of parity that is reached, and that there will be a mutual response.
When that doesn’t happen – when that person makes it clear that they want to oppress you, deny you your rights, imprison you, and, yes, even kill you simply because of who you are at your fundamental core…
I do not have to love that person.
You do not have to love that person.
Loving that person is allowing them to continue with their messages of hatred.
Loving that person is being complicit in their hate and anger and behavior.
Loving that person is agreeing that it is okay to discriminate
They do not desire your love.
They do not respect your love.
They will use your love against you.
Do not love that person.